Bath Time

I thought this was a good time to discuss bath time. When you have 2 kids and need to do 2 baths it is not very time smart. But not any more. Yay! I can finally bath the 2 kids togethger. No big deal right? Why couldn't I do it before? he was too small (yah right), he couldn't sit by himself (he still can't), Katheryn doens't want to share (with her brother - always). Nope it was a poop issue - but I'll get to that later - [actually I moved it to another post]. I had to take out the rubber mat in our tub (I'm not sure if it has latex), or in this picture I covered the mat with a towel.

Katheryn loves having a bath with her brother. She helps me wash him, and shows him how to play with toys. And he just lies or sits there and kicks him legs. Just kick kick kick. (He doesn't actually straigh leg kick, but he frog kicks.) But yay for bath time!

The Poop Issue

Here are some of our recent problems with poop. Well when I was breastfeeding he always pooped - typical for a baby with spina bifida. Sometimes it bordered on diarhea, but he's healthy and chunky and tolerated it all well.

Well now that he's eating food (and LOVING it!) we've reached the other end (ha ha) of that scale.

We started off good. Oatmeal (no rice) which he loved, but we went 10 days without adding anything else. I don't know why, I didn't realize so much time had passed without adding anything. Pooping at first was no big deal, went from all the time to once a day. Then nothing.

After 2 days of nothing we added prunes - his second food (not really following the traditional order of things). Still nothing. We went to the cottage for the weekend and still nothing. We added more water to the oatmeal. We tried warm baths and belly rubs, nothing. We took out the oatmeal and added another vegetable. Still nothing. We added corn to the mix (which he LOVES!!! #1 favorite food). And kept the prunes and still nothing. Where is this stuff going?!! Finally after 11 days we got a poop!!! Yay!
OK so I helped him a bit with it, a little intervention, but it worked!

So now prunes are going to remain a staple in his diet, and we are adding some cereal and vegetables and we're keeping up with the poops.

Beached

The long weekend was so great I really needed to just post again about it.

The last post was all about Nickolas, just we got 2 kids, so Katheryn will get her own long weekend post too. It's hard to beleive that one year ago, on the long weekend was the first time Katheryn took a step. Now here she is bouncing and jumping and running and splashing away!

She had so much fun at the cottage! She got to play in the water during the day, and the sand and then at night she got to sit by the fire with everyone and enjoy a nice cottage night (and the bugs weren't even bad).

The kids both tolerated the nights pretty good too. The first night they woke up a bunch of times, but after that they were pretty good with sleeping through. Hopefully this will keep up over the summer. They even slept through all the fireworks going off outside their window (right outside - that's what happens when nieghbors are teenage boys with firecrackers).

 But I guess the fresh air just tuckered them out.

Cottaging for the long weekend

So it's the first long weekend of the season (and not even summer yet), but it means cottage time!! The best things about the cottage are that there is all family up there, there is fresh air and of course the lake. Usually the first long weekend is not a good time to go in the water (which doesn't stop some people) but this year it was wonderful! And we all got to enjoy the water, even Nickolas (though you can't tell from the picture).

We did do some swimming (OK more like sitting) in the water with Nickolas, but mostly he just sat in the shade and watched what we were doing. But he really liked after the swim, I brought him to deeper water, just to get all the sand out of ... well everywhere. He got all wrapped up in a nice comfy towel and really like chewing on the edges.

Since we were up at the cottage I also got to do some fundraising for my walk, and of course show off my cute kids and make spina bifida a common name. And around our family, it is. There is no hiding it, no secrets and wonderings. We are very open about what is going on. But it is ALOT easier to explain to adults than to children - I'm still working on that one.

Physio

We've been going to physio regularly. Doing some trunk control and head control exercises. We go down to Bloorview every week. It's a bit of a trek (1 hr there and 1 hr back), but we have seen that he is doing good with his exercises, he gets a good work-out and then we have exercises to do at home.

Have I mentioned how happy and laid back my kid is? He is great, he has an extremely nice temperment, hardly ever cries (in public). Just smiles and laughs and raspberries to everyone. This would seem like something positive. And IT IS!

Except when we are trying to do physio. We want him to work and he doesn't really want to.

There is one exercise that we do where he is supposed to straighten himself up from a 90 degree angle, so I'm just holding his thighs and he is hanging forward. Well he is content just to hang there, as if saying 'yup this is where I want to be'. And I can call him and try to get him to straighten up, but nope, he is working to stay right where he is. So we take a bit of a break. Some days he'll do his physio, we have a bunch of different exercises, but then other days it's as if he is trying to say 'make me'.

There are some exercises that are hard for me to do - if you look at the picture it includes holding up a 20lb kid so he can bring himself up. Sounds like a job for Daddy!

This is typical of Nickolas, fighting really hard NOT to work.

Poor guy.

But we can see how much he's improved sitting up better and holding his head straight and just holding himself straighter and better. Our PT says that everything comes from the trunk (which makes sense) so we don't concentrate on the legs or feet (yet) is all starts with proper trunk control.