A Journey with Love and Laughter

Read about our family as we journey through life as a family, with siblings, school and spina bifida, and lots of fun and laughter along the way!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

School Routine

I'm trying to start a new routine with Nickolas
In the morning we take Katheryn to the bus stop (Kyle, Katheryn, Nickolas, Sammie and me) - Nick is in his wheelchair.
But I want to build endurance with Nickolas in his walker,
So in the afternoons we are taking out the walker
 

Nick is getting distracted very easily
And we are taking our time


In the last 4 weeks we get about a quarter of the way to the bus stop (uphill)


Nickolas is having a lot of fun doing it
And really feels that he is accomplishing something


I am so proud of him and how much he is trying!
I am always cheering him on - and so is Katheryn when she meets back up with us

The progress is slower than what I want
And I try to remind myself that Nickolas doesn't work on my timeline

Monday, October 1, 2012

Dressing up!

It's officially October!
Which means that I can start adding more to our Costume box!
 


And I should probably get a moving on our Halloween costumes!
I excited for our first wheelchair and walker costumes!!
It looks great in my head...
Now I have to figure out how to actually make it happen.

On another note...
October is also Spina Bifida Awareness Month in the United States!
(It's June in Canada)
There are lots of awareness going on in different blogs!
Showing What Spina Bifida Looks Life
31 Days of Spina Bifida Awareness
Our Families, Our Children
The Good and The Bad - Potter Style
Days of Spina Bifida Awareness - Just found this blog!
Information about Spina Bifida
This one is about Down Syndrome, but just sub in spina bifida and you got it!


I've seen this on some people's FB pages, and I made this!
I have it proudly on my car, but it's also available on cafepress.com

Friday, September 28, 2012

Dancing through Life

Nick LOVES dancing!
If there is any music playing (or being made) he is there wiggling that bum and moving those feet!
Half the time he just starts singing so he can dance!

 

Sometimes he channels his inner John Travolta!

 
 
Katheryn loves dancing, and I enjoy dancing (but only since I stopped caring if I looked silly or not). I am ecstatic that Nickolas is loving to dance as well.
 
When Nick was a baby and I worried about everything, I (of course) worried about dancing. I  bought a book (I can't remember if it was suggested or if I found it myself) called Giraffe's Can't Dance. It's a little story about a giraffe who really wants to dance, but isn't very good because of his giraffe body.


Of course I won't ruin the end for you, but the cover might clue you in!
I eventually stopped worrying if Nick would be able to dance, but started showing him he could dance if he wanted to. And Nick already has better foot-work than I do!
I wish I had more video, I guess we'll just have to keep dancing!


Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Another Year in the Clear

We had our annual neurosurgery appointment at Sick Kids yesterday.
Nothing like an early morning alarm clock, waking up a sleeping kid (who woke up great) and getting out of the house in the dark. I made the trek downtown by myself (I hate driving downtown and usually get someone to drive with me). I made a couple of detours by accident but eventually I made it with enough time to spare.
Nickolas had his choice, did he want to go in his chair? Or did he want to walk in his walker?
He was very adamant that he wanted to walk.
 

The benefit of a 8am appointment is that we were in a room right away.
Nick wanted to climb into the window and enjoy the view. He thought all the construction around the hospital was great!! But couldn't figure out where our car was parked.


Dr Rutka came in, talked to us. Checked his shunt on the outside. He said the MRI results were good. One ventricle was slightly bigger than the other ventricle, but that is not unexpected.
I asked about Nick's neck cracking all the time! I know it's pretty minor, he said sometimes it will happen but there isn't anything to do.
We are cleared for 1 more year! Unless of course something happens and we won't need to do another MRI then. Things are staying stable.
He told us that there are still things to watch out for (we are never really in the clear); shunt and tethered cord. Then we were out the door.


We didn't hurry anywhere, Nick wanted to take some time to enjoy the sights, Nothing like being 6 floors up!
The elevators were a bit of a challenge.

The doors don't stay open long enough for Nick to make it with his walker. But eventually one opened close enough for us to get there. On the way to the parking garage we missed 6 different elevators between people coming out, going in and trying to get in there to hold the door for Nick to come in.


Nickolas was very excited to be walking around with all the big people! He was really distracted by the feet, so much that he almost walked head-long into a computer! I stopped him just in time.


He thought it was a great adventure!
All before 9am

Saturday, September 22, 2012

General Meeting - Hydrocephalus

This month was the annual General Meeting for SB&H, our Ontario organization.

This is the second year I've attended. They have presentations every year from professionals in the area. This year the area we were talking about was Hydrocephalus.

I think I'm the only person who took notes on the presentation, but it was interesting.
One of the presenters is a renowned neuropathologist, Dr. Marc Del Bigio and he discussed the brain with hydrocephalus.
The information he gave us was interesting. And I understand the importance of having specialists coming and  talking to us, but the title of the presentation would give me some insight into the way we heard the information presented.
Damage and Dysfunction in the Hydrocephalic Brain
Personally I'm extremely sensitive to not labelling. Not saying Hydrocephalic brain, but the Brain with Hydrocephalus. Doesn't really seem to be that big of a deal, but it is to me.

Anyways.
The speaker is a pathologist. Which means that he is used to working with dead people ect. Which adds valuable knowledge, but you have to remember he is talking to a room full of people who either have hydrocephalus themselves, or has a loved one who does. I swear my mouth dropped open when he talked about animal testing and autopsy findings.
I`m going to review my notes and put them into my other, learning blog.
HERE - I want to get this part out before actually adding the information (with pictures) so hopefully it will be up by the time you visit.

The second speaker was Dr Ruth Donnelly who talked about her research done with 100 kids who have hydrocephalus secondary to a number of different reasons.
How Smart Are Kids With Hydrocephalus?
Is this a reasonable question?
Is there a reasonable answer to this question?

Not only did she start by saying who did we think was smarter. But she ended the presentation saying that no matter what different tests say, they do not label our kids.
Hallelujah!
It`s very nice to hear from a medical professional. I know sometimes we feel that they just don`t understand, and that we are fighting a battle to get our kids to seen as just kids, who also have ...
I`m going to review what she talked about as well HERE

Other parts of the General Meeting we got to meet 2 puppets with spina bifida!
Teaching Awareness through Puppetry
They go to schools and talk about what it`s like (for the puppet) to have spina bifida, and give an opportunity for questions.
They start at Grade 1.

Another great part of the general meeting was the opportunity to meet other people. I sat at a table with 4 other mothers. 2 of whom I know, but the other 2 I've only met online. It was nice to sit with mothers and eat and chat. They are also 'ahead of the game' with older children.
We are hoping to all meet at a Support Meeting for Hydrocephalus in about a month - our second meeting for our newly formed group with help from SB&H.

I enjoyed the General Meeting, and will definitely mark it on my calender for next year as well.