A Journey with Love and Laughter

Read about our family as we journey through life as a family, with siblings, school and spina bifida, and lots of fun and laughter along the way!

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day!

I have written a number of posts about Mother's day, well, because I write my blog and I am a mother... And even though Kyle isn't a big writer, doesn't mean Father's Day should be excluded from our family adventures.

So while Kyle is not my father, I will still celebrate him as the father of my children. and the one who is in this adventure with us!

Right from day 1,  presenting our daughter to the world.
The biggest smile I think I've ever seen on Kyle's face
And of course Katheryn is totally a Daddy's Girl


And while our world was shifting, you provide the stable base to our family, the positivity and belief to my worrying and wondering. Knowing that you are where our family needs you to be. That is what being a father means, to me.

From the first time you got to hold Nickolas in your arms


To boosting the kids on your shoulders


To one of the best Father's I know!


While our adventure continues, I know that my kids father is one who will make them proud


(and who is incredibly proud of his kids)


And to two of the Father's that have lead to way



Happy Father's Day!

Saturday, June 20, 2015

Summer weekend

Katheryn had Sparks camp this weekend!
2 days and nights of fun (all by herself)

Katheryn wasn't worried about leaving us, grabbed her stuff and was off with her friends!
She had so much fun! And at the end of camp graduated from Sparks with the rest of her troop.


She got very annoyed with my picture taking when we picked her up.
I expect I will see this face in my future... I just thought I had another 8 years or so...


Nickolas got to have his parents all to himself this weekend. So we went to a picnic at Grandview!
Queen Elsa was there


And Nick got to show us his accessible play ground


And he had a blast swinging on the swing!


And showing off his Ninja moves. He played with his friends from school that were there.












We did find out that Katheryn fills in a lot of the empty space. I don't know if I have ever heard Nickolas talk so much!
We sat and watched a couple of movies and he talked through the whole thing (until he fell asleep).
What is this, why is that happening, who are those people...

Having each child by themselves this weekend just shows Kyle and me how much they are growing up!

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Orthodic changes, and another 'K'

We had a follow up with orthodics today.
I wasn't really sure if we were going to get more orthodics or not. But we were going to discuss some options.

The 'K' has been brought up again. As in KAFO
And even though we were so happy when we got rid of the 'K' 2 years ago when I see how straight he was after and then look at him standing now.
I know that we need it.


Nick is putting a lot of pressure on his knees. They are twisting and especially on his left side, the ligament is starting to stretch. Once the ligament is stretched it stays stretched. (I think it is 1cm longer right now). So the emphasis is on preventing it from stretching.

Of course if it is stretched it isn't supportive. What this means is that if he can't count on his knees for support, and he is only going to get older, taller and heavier. His left knee is starting to hurt him when he is walking all day.

So we tried some things
Nick was not that sure about it


These are called Gators and they support his legs and knees and keep his legs straight. They are bulky but they wanted to see what he would do


Once he was able to show off his walking with it, then the 2 PT's and the orthotist talked about our options. We have our PT from Campbell's who is with us for another week, and then we will transition to the school age program and a new team.

Everyone was discussing what we wanted. There is a new KAFO where the 'K' is removable. This answered all of our concerns. There was the knee support for when he needed, and it could come off when he doesn't need it. There is also talk about locking and non-locking. I want him to be able to bend his knee, so it will be non-locking. But there was a question about the type of jointing to use. So we'll see what we end up with.



Luckily we had already talked about designs (something I usually spend alot of time planning). And Nick knew exactly what he wanted. A hint is in the story Corey is reading below...


 We'll get them in a couple of weeks I think. And I'm hoping that it will help to be more supportive to Nick.

Saturday, June 13, 2015

Spina Bifida awareness video

I know that you might get sick of the same video every year. But I want to keep finding ways to improve it (and include current pictures).

So here is our updated 2015 awareness video!

Saturday, June 6, 2015

Our 6th Annual Spirit Wheel Walk Run

The day of our event came. 
And we had a fantastic turn out!
We had 41 people come out as part of Nick's Cheering Squad.


We had families and friends, co-workers and school friends.
And we had 4 families with spina bifida together!

It was about half kids and adults, so we got a kid picture of everyone!
From 2 weeks old to 14 years!


Nick was very excited to start on his walk


We started relatively on time, with Nick leading the way


The weather was nice and sunny but not super hot.
So it was perfect (but I have said that I will walk rain or shine... shine is just preferred)


Everyone took turns pushing Nick, and he had a blast!


We stopped at the look-out and the kids had fun climbing up and watching all of the adults below


and I think the adults were glad to have a rest


The kids were playing a game and didn't want to go back! Except of course that that is where the food was...


We all posed for some pictures while we waited




But for some reason didn't get one of all of us together


I can see how our event has grown in the last couple of years. We used to be walk for the whole 3 hours. Now we walk more as a group together, everyone (almost) makes it to the look out, and then we walk back.


The leisurely pace we made let us all talk as we walked.
And catch up with other families


Katheryn and Hannah were together as usual!


Then it was back to the picnic area for some socializing and food


and baby snuggles


And Nick was doing lifts on his walker


We picnicked right beside the playground (too cold for the splash pad) so the kids all had lots of fun, and the adults weren't too far away


And I even had an opportunity to educate some people who stopped and asked us about our event


At the end of the day we all had another fantastic year of cheering on Nickolas!


Nick passed out soon after we got home...


Always a sign of how well the day went!

We are still fundraising until the end of the month

/https://www.canadahelps.org/en/pages/nicks-cheering-squad-2/


and I'm still working on some awareness posts and videos.

But you will definately see Nick's Cheering Squad walking, riding and wheeling next year!