A Journey with Love and Laughter

Read about our family as we journey through life as a family, with siblings, school and spina bifida, and lots of fun and laughter along the way!

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Bladder plans

We had our follow up with urology from October.
We left at that time with a plan to increase cathing time and to record outputs. I didn't really want this to be the plan at the time. I wanted more action, to actually do something to prevent leaking instead of emptying more often.

The increase in cathing time we were not that great with, but most of the time we were about every 3-4 hours. At school it increased to every 2 hours; which means he is out of class for 45 min a day (3x 15 min). And we were still getting some leaking. Over Christmas break I recorded all output to have some data to bring.

I brought all of our information for our urology appointment. We met with Dr Lorenzo's nurse practitioner Abby and she spent a lot of time discussing options with us. Because Nick is leaking probably about 80-90% of the time.

So some of our options are medication increase or changes.
Currently the only medication Nick is taking is called gelnique daily and restoralax once a week.

Oxybutynin is the medication of choice for neurogenic bladder. It is an anticholinergic medication and relaxes the smooth muscle of the bladder.

Gelnique is Oxybutynin in gel form. It is topical, which means we put it on his skin and it gets absorbed.  Because it is absorbed in the skin and not in pill form we have noticed a decrease in side effects such as flushing, over heating, constipation.
Because we are currently using this already, the option we discussed is increasing the gelnique. It is expensive, and the more you increase the dose the increased chance of side effects.

Another option is to try oral medication.
We have used Oxybutynin in a liquid form (one of the reasons Nick has had so many cavities). But at 6 he might be able to tolerate a pill form. But the pill form increases side effects. My worry is that we are really good with our bowel routine. And I don't want to mess that up. Currently Nick takes one medication a day and one medication weekly. To take oral oxybutynin he would have to take this medication 3 times a day, and we would have to offset the constipation with medication daily or every other day.
This isn't really something we want to do right now.

Oxybutynin can also be crushed and flushed into the bladder. This would be similar to the oral dosage (3x a day), but with less side effects because it is right at the source. It is time consuming and can be messy. In the end, Dr Lorenzo didn't recommend this.

There are other medications called Detrol. I don't know very much about the medication, other than it is used as an alternative to oxybutynin.


Then we discussed other options.
These are more invasive options and now the question is, what is more invasive? Putting a variety of medication in your body on a daily basis at a dose so that it will work. Or trying something else.

The other option (and one we are going forward with) involves general anesthetic in the operating room for the purposes of a cystoscopy. A cystoscopy in adults does not need general anesthetic as it does not involve any actual surgery (like incisions and stuff). But in a child, they do it with the child asleep. (Similar to when Nick needed general anesthetic in the operating room for his dentist work last year).

A Cystoscope is a tube that goes into the urethra and into the bladder, the tube has a light and a camera and things (like a needle) can be passed through the tube to inject into the bladder. 



The cystoscope allows the doctor to inject Botox into spots in the bladder. Botox is also known as botulinum toxin, a name that makes you take a step back. We are giving our child a toxin?! It is of course known most commonly for cosmetic reasons, by weakening facial muscles and smoothing wrinkles. But that is exactly what we want to do to the bladder.
Botox treatment for urinary incontinence due to neurogenic bladder in children is an approved use. It does exactly what it says it does. It paralyzes (relaxes the spasms of) the bladder muscles by injecting into the bladder in multiple places. This is done through the cystoscope.
The effects of the Botox is temporary and will need to be repeated. When discussing it with Abby she said about every 6 months. But as the effects of the botox starts wearing off then we can start looking at medications again.
The botox injections means that all other medications can be stopped while the botox is working. I personally used Botox injections to treat my hyperhydrosis (excessive sweating) and found that it worked perfectly for 6 months, and the following 6 months it still worked but not perfectly. And by a year I was back to where I was.
Most of the side effects of the botox (difficulty urinating) we already cath, so it is not an issue. But infection is the most common side effect. I have seen some studies that recommended antibiotics.

The other option that we discussed was a Bulking agent. This means an injection (through the cystoscope) of a bulking agent, such as collagen at the bladder neck to make the bladder neck tighter. This means that by moving around and being more active (like at school) the bladder won't leak. We talked about this with Abby. She said that if it looks like the bladder neck is open a lot, then they will do the bulking agent. This isn't something that would need to be repeated. If it isn't open and leaking, then they won't do the bulking agent.
I would hate to do it, and inject something and then not be able to advance the catheter. Because we still need enough space in the bladder neck to advance a catheter.



So these are all of our options.
I spent a lot of time talking back and forth between medication and procedure (I don't really want to use the word surgery). But we left with a plan.
Temporarily increase the Gelnique to 2 packs a day and wait for a operating room time (hopefully within 3 months). That way we are doing a little bit of both options. Try medication for a bit while we wait for the procedure (which we can cancel if we want to).

One of the funny things about the appointment is that everyone kept apologizing for taking so long. It took us 2 1/2 hours to get to Sick Kids for our 1030 appointment, we waited about 20 minutes in the waiting room and then just over an hour for our appointment. I laughed and said that it took longer to get here! Then it took another 3 hours to get home.
We do take public transit (Go Train and Subway... except our stop for Sick Kids isn't accessible), and we walked back down to Union Station and stopped to eat on the way home. This is why an hour appointment takes all day

Sunday, January 3, 2016

Starting 2016!

We brought in the new year with lots of fun in the snow!


It has been a great annual tradition to go up to the cottage and celebrate New Years (Kyle and the kids started without me, because I had to work New Years this year).

This year it was perfect snow for some sledding.
Nick would go down the hill on a thin sled, and then we would pull him up with a second sled


Rory had fun chasing the kids down the hill.


Sam spent his time just barking at the kids sliding down!




 

Nick spent more time out in the snow this year than he has in the past. But he does get cold faster (between sitting on the snow and not moving around that much). He uses his walker in the snow, but usually just waited at the top of the hill until it was his turn again


The kids were very excited when I said that I wanted to try. And Katheryn wanted some terrified pictures


Don't let all the snow fool you though. The lake isn't anywhere close to being frozen!


On our last night the kids wanted to do some night sledding
But it was really dark at the end of the run



They had some snow ball fights


And we had a fire (but no marshmallows)


And I enjoyed my own New Years celebration in the snow


Thursday, December 31, 2015

A year in Review

Here is our 2015!


Welcome 2015!
January was cold and snowy, and we spent a lot of the time at the cottage


Aww Love these guys!

Katheryn lost her first tooth in March, and they kids enjoyed March break (including the teddy bear clinic)


 Katheryn turned 7 in April (and celebrated the whole month). We celebrated Easter (on Katheryn's birthday) and were in the Easter Seals Telethon and showcased on the news
We also went on a trip to Florida and met princesses and ninja turtles


 In May it was time for fun! spent a great long weekend at the cottage (with a quick visit home for a new baby)


 The kids were sad to end school in June
And it was our 6th annual SWWR


In July Nick got his new braces!


Easter Seals Camp was in August! And we got our brand new puppy!


September was back to school, backyard fun and zoo fun!


October was a great month!
With Thanksgiving, a wedding, baptism and of course Halloween with an Angel and Cap!


In November, Nick turned 6! With a trip to Great Wolf Lodge. And Katheryn started karate!


December was all about fun!


2015 was a great year!


Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Walker-free time

Nickolas has been doing great with his walking. He wants to practice at least every day doing some independent stepping. We still need to remind him to get his balance in between steps, but he is still doing it.
 
We had to take 2 weeks off without the 'K' part of his braces because of 2 sores that weren't healing. And without the K he doesn't feel as stable (but he still wanted to try). But once we got them back on he was ready to get started again.
 
And then I thought...
What he really needs to help him get more stable in between his stepping is something he can hold on to. Like his crutches.
 
 
Nick was not very happy about this. He is afraid of his crutches and he says they make him fall. But now he has the ability to stand and remain standing and stepping without the crutches.
But of course his walker is easier for him
 
So we decided to have a walker-free Winter vacation.
It brought back memories of making Nick workout in his walker. And I told that to Nick. He used to cry and scream and not want to walk, and now he flies in his walker.
So now he has to learn and gain strength in his crutches. Because I know he can do it. I know he has the ability to walk with his crutches.
 
Nickolas was not very happy about it
 

But after a couple of days (and some falls and getting right back up) he was getting more comfortable using his crutches. He is still asking for his walker back, but there are places his crutches can go that his walker can't.

 
And after a week of walker-free days Nick is much more comfortable with his crutches. He is gaining confidence that he can do it!

 

We even duct-taped a cup to the side so that he can carry around toys or something.
And it opens up his options. When his walker can't fit, or when we have his wheelchair with us (like going downtown) and he wants to walk around, it gives him an option rather than crawl on the floor.

Will he be able to ditch the walker and walk only with crutches? I don't know. Probably not, but can he ditch crawling on the floor and walk with crutches? Definitely! (If and when he wants to)

Saturday, December 26, 2015

Boxing Day

What? You mean we can't play with the big bag of wrapping paper and boxes?


Boxing day morning came a little bit late!


And the day was spent playing with their favorite toys and games
Marvel Monopoly was definitely a favorite (and the player most like The HULK gets to start first)


Dressing in our favorite clothes


Playing with our favorite toys (oh wait, that is Mommy's new toy!


And being strong in the force