A Journey with Love and Laughter

Read about our family as we journey through life as a family, with siblings, school and spina bifida, and lots of fun and laughter along the way!

Friday, January 13, 2012

A big purchase

We make a very exciting purchase for Nick this week!


I've decided that it is time to start to cath Nick on the potty.
This will hopefully transition into a routine that will get him out of diapers.

After the disastrous Tweed experience last month I thought it was time to get off the change table.
I'd tried him on the potty a couple of months ago, but Nick's balance was still off and I just couldn't maneuver everything and couldn't figure out the proper logistics. I did talk to OT in June about something to help, but what we were shown was not what I had in mind at all. The flamingo toilet system - it was big and bulky and a piece of equipment I didn't think we needed.
I'm still on the lookout for something very simple - but somehow I can't find it (a little kid toilet set with handles).


But while we are at home, Nick now has his very own potty!
Except that this picture is of him on Katheryn's potty - oops. Nick picked out the cars potty - complete with a revving engine noise!
We've been cathing him on it all this week - so far so good!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Physiotherapy woes and wonders

You know when you have a blog post just waiting to burst forward. You write the whole thing in your head and know exactly what you are going to say.
I had this post all ready.
All about our physiotherapy woes.
I am currently pissed off at our local children's centre. Just like I was pissed off last year and other times. Because I feel we are being pushed around and not getting the care that we need.
Why?
Because we are still waiting to be picked up (again) from Grandview
Becase we had 2 blocks of therapy last year.
2 blocks!!! In 1 year.
That is 2 blocks of 7 weeks, and another 3 sessions to adjust the walker - so 17 sessions of physio in 52 weeks!

And this is what we are supposed to use to see that Nickolas is reaching his potential and getting the care he needs.

This is actually our government therapy. We have used insurance (a whole $500 in insurance - which we reached pretty quickly) to top up Nick's physio. We actually had 4 different physiotherapists working with Nickolas and I this past year. Melissa - who we saw Feb-March (block 1); Colleen that we see privately starting in May, Megan who we started with in July-August (block 2) and worked with the walker with us through the fall until she went off on maternity leave, and Doreen, we saw in the fall privately and who is also a osteopath and physiotherapist.
If you are counting (which I am) we paid privately for another 13 sessions. On top of our conductive education (not traditional physiotherapy - but we get working) So that's another 20 sessions.

At the spina bifida clinic we have even more physiotherapists! We have Kim our original physiotherapist, who has been off for 6 months and came back in October, and another PT who we never did therapy with, but see at baby group and clinic. She was the one who said that Nick functions at a L3 level.

Sounds great for continuing care.
Especially for a child that does not warm up to therapy very well.
In fact, he usually screams his way through therapy sessions. I've blogged about it before.
A child who has so much potential, but doesn't want to show it until he is ready.

We have not been recreating the wheel at every session.
When we were all of a sudden dumped by PT in March I was floundering. We were not left with a plan, we didn't have goals, we didn't even have any dates about when we would get picked up again. Just sometime in May (it was really July). I didn't want that to happen again
We started private physio in May. Nick screamed and cried and carried on through the whole thing - but he worked. And we had a plan, we had goals and written objectives.

In July I had a goal. I had an objective. I wanted a walker. I didn't care what I had to do, or what Nick had to do to get us a walker. But I wanted one. So once we met with Megan in July we started working on getting him a walker.
And we had one to take home on one of our last physio sessions at the end of July. We have since gone back a couple of times just for different walker things. I took off all of the supports at the end of August because I felt he didn't need them. And in September we changed out this walker for another one I purchased, and then for another loaner in October.
OK we might have a little bit of walker overload.

I just feel that we are being tossed aside and getting sub-standard, nonconsistent, noncontinuous care. And I don't really know what to do about it.


Well Kim to the rescue!
At baby group this month Kim offered to pick us up again for a block!
I am so excited. Kim is great, she is super experienced with spina bifida and Nick does know her. He needs a little bit of a warming up period. I am so excited about this. Finally to have weekly physiotherapy again (after 6 months) instead of a week here and there, espeically because we are on a break from our conductive education.
So we start again on lucky Friday the 13th! And we'll be moving forward, with the right equipment and support!

Monday, January 9, 2012

Class Clown

Nick loves being silly and clowning around.

Whenever we ask him about colours, he says that every colour is blue.
He knows his colours, he doesn't think that every colour is blue. He just likes saying it.

Last week I asked him what colour something was. He says yellow, looks at me with this funny grin then says blue! Blue!

This picture doesn't adequately show the funny-devil grin, but it's the closest I have.

Today he was playing with Kyle on a farm animal mat.
What is this? Nick says dog, cat...
"Good Nick! point to the cow", he points.
"OK, what is this?"
He looks at Kyle, goofy grin.
Dog
"No Nick, it's not a dog, it's a cow."
Dog
Nick what is this? (pointing to the pig)
Dog
He thinks it hilarious!

He's been doing it with everything. Plate, no it's a bowl; plate! Plate!
Putting his socks on his head, or his knee or his hand.

Silliness, but it makes us all laugh.
I think this boy is definitely going to be the class clown.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Just because it is today

Welcome 2012
Because it is today, someone decided to have a little 2 year old tantrum!


Because it is today, Katheryn wanted to play with some of her favorite new presents
Puzzles!!


Because it is today, we decided to enjoy a picnic
(notice Nick's little devil grin!)


Just because it is today we stood at the window and waited for some snow


It's too cold for snow ;)


It's just today. Any day.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Good-bye 2011

It's amazing how far we have come!

Good-bye 2011.
You gave us a year of worry and excitement, you showed us triumph and tears.
You gave us miracles and you left us with only memories.
I don't know if I am happy you are gone or glad that you brought us so much.

I gave you a family who was waiting to show off what we could do,
And you gave me shunt scares and standing, worry and waiting,
You brought us equipment and encouragement,
You gave us a 3 year old, and a 2 year old (both great years by the way),
You helped us settle into working life, scheduling and appointments,
You tried to make me patient and show me what is worth waiting for,
You showed us what patience will produce and that timelines don't matter,
You gave us time for family and memories and fun.

Thank you for the Love, Laughter and Living!


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There were so many pictures that I wanted to include!

And I'm sure I'm forgetting some pivotal moment in my recollection of the year, but I don't know what it is - or don't want to recall it. Hope you enjoyed our year in review and I look forward to what 2012 will bring us (except for the registering for kindergarten part).